Choosing Godparents: 5 Essential Tips for Baptism & Christening

Choosing a godparent for your child is one of the most important decisions you will make regarding their spiritual development and life. A godparent will play a significant role as a spiritual guide and mentor.

Here are the five essential factors to consider when making your choice.

5 Essential Factors When Choosing a Godparent

1. Shared Faith and Values

  • Spiritual Guide: Choose a godparent who actively shares your family's religious beliefs and values, as they will be responsible for helping guide your child's spiritual journey.
  • Emulation: Select someone who lives their faith in a way you would like your child to emulate.

2. Relationship and Trust

  • Closeness: Consider choosing a close friend or family member. This ensures a pre-existing level of trust and comfort when discussing your child's religious education.
  • Communication: They should be someone you trust completely and feel comfortable communicating with long into the future.

3. Availability and Commitment

  • Active Role: A godparent should be willing and able to take an active role in your child's life, not just attending the ceremony.
  • Support: They should be available to attend important religious events and ceremonies and provide guidance and support when needed.

4. Compatibility and Connection

  • Bonding: The godparent should be someone who is comfortable forming a strong, supportive bond with your child and your entire family.
  • Longevity: Aim to choose individuals who you expect to be a stable presence in your family's life for many years.

5. Church Requirements

  • Check Requirements: Always check with your church or priest, as many congregations require godparents to be baptised and active members of the church. This must be confirmed before finalising your choice.

Honoring Their Commitment: The Perfect Thank You

The commitment a godparent makes is a life-long vow of support. It is customary to honour this role with a meaningful keepsake.

Personalised Taper Candles as a Keepsake

Taper Candles are traditionally held by godparents during the ceremony, symbolising the light of Christ being passed on. A personalised taper candle set with the godparents' names and the date of the ceremony makes a perfect, lasting thank you gift.

Shop Personalised Godparent Taper Candle Sets

Related Baptism Planning Resources

Planning a ceremony involves many steps. Here are some helpful guides:

 

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